Am I Attractive?

Some young women think that young men or other young women are only interested in girls who are skinny and obsessed about their appearance. That's not really true.

Here's what a lot of young men and young women really find attractive in young women

  • Young women who treat their partner with respect
  • Young women who know what they want for themselves and work towards it
  • Young women who are able to be really honest and say how they are feeling and what they want or don't want
  • Young women who know and are able to express their rights in relationships
  • Young women who don't let themselves be treated like a doormat
  • Young women who accept when their partner says no to anything sexual
  • Young women who are interested in their partner as person not just as someone to have sex with or be seen with
  • Young women who make sure they have time to spend together alone with their partner as well as with other friends
  • Young women who don't need to be steaming or wasted to have a good time
  • Young women who share responsibility for safer sex
  • Young women who notice and who give compliments when something deserves it and who can also accept compliments in return
  • Young women who don't criticise their own bodies or other people all the time
  • Young women who are comfortable giving their partner space as well as quality time together
  • Young women who don't change how they are with their partner if they're in a big group of pals

These are important things to think about. Learn more about what women think about bodies at "Our Bodies Ourself" website  and "Any Body" website. Above all you need to be aware of Your Rights and Responsibilities when it comes to relationships and sexual health.