Am I Attractive?

Some young men think that young women or other young men are only interested in macho guys with a six pack, muscles and an attitude. That's not really true.

Here's what a lot of young women and young men really find attractive in young men

  • Young Men who treat their partner with respect
  • Young Men who listen to their partner and ask them how they are feeling and what they want
  • Young Men who are able to say how they are feeling and what they want or don't want
  • Young Men who understand that relationships are about both people feeling happy and satisfied
  • Young Men who accept when their partner says no to anything sexual
  • Young Men who are interested in their partner as a person not just as someone to have sex with
  • Young Men who make sure they have time to spend together alone with their partner as well as with other friends
  • Young Men who don't need to be steaming or wasted to have a good time
  • Young Men who take equal responsibility for safer sex by asking to use condoms
  • Young Men who notice and who give compliments when something deserves it
  • Young Men who don't criticise all the time and don't become a jealous text pester
  • Young Men who don't force their partner to do anything she or he doesn't want to do
  • Young Men who are clean and pay attention to how they look
  • Young Men who don't change how they are with their partner if they're in a big group of pals
  • Young Men who don't brag and talk about private things with friends

These are important things to think about.

Above all you need to be aware of Your Rights and your Responsibilities when it comes to relationships and sexual health.