Feelings and Emotions

Some of the changes you might be going through are not just physical. Boys can sometimes feel a bit more moody and emotional. Some boys can feel grumpy or a bit teary at times without really knowing why. This is because your brain is producing lots more of the hormones (chemicals produced in your brain) that can cause these feelings.

Sometimes these feelings mean you can fly off the handle a bit more than usual, or find some people extra annoying. Some boys get the feeling that nobody understands them or what's going on for them. This is quite normal but it's important not to take these feelings out on other people and make sure you try to work out ways to keep calm.

Some boys need lots more sleep than usual when they are growing during puberty, this is why some teenage boys end up wanting to sleep in really late.

There are different things you can do to try and help lift your mood:

  • Get out in the fresh air.
  • Do some exercise or go for a short walk.
  • Listen to some music you like.
  • Talk to someone you trust
  • Write down your feelings, perhaps in a diary.

There's more information at these sites:

Or you can talk to someone in confidence at Child Line