Thinking about your own identity and sexual orientation

Who are you? What do you like? As a young person you will begin to find the freedom to discover things about yourself. You'll also meet a lot of different people with a wide range of opinions, tastes and identities.

It can be exciting to explore things and try and define yourself, to find out where you fit in and where you don't. It can also be a confusing time, not only thinking about who you are, but who you'd like to have relationships with.group photo

Becoming an adult brings questions and decisions about loving and sexual relationships.

Not everyone is clear about their sexual orientation; it may take time for some people to understand their sexual feelings - that's OK.

If you're gay, lesbian or bisexual, or if you're unsure about your sexual orientation there are confidential services you can contact for information and support or to meet other people:

  • LGBT Youth Scotland gives information and support on their website  they can also give advice, support and information by text message directly to your mobile phone.  Regardless of where you are in Scotland, you can send a text asking for details about groups, events, or for information about coming out tips, help about your mental health and much more. All you need to tell us is your age and where you are. All texts are picked up by trained youth work staff who can help you out at the touch of a button. Text "info" and where you are to 0778 148 17 88.
  • Strathclyde Gay & Lesbian Switchboard gives support and information on its helpline. Phone 0141 847 0447 every night from 7pm to 10pm.
  • If you are a student you can ask your student union if there's a lesbian/gay/bisexual club on campus.
  • If you want some advice contact The Place which is part of Sandyford. It's a young people friendly sexual health service. Phone: 0141 211 8130 for more.

Have a good time but remember to stay safe and that you have the right to be happy and fulfilled in relationships.

 

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