For most people, the word sexuality is about whether someone is straight or gay. While that can be part of what sexuality is, there's a lot more to it than that! Sexuality is a whole range of feelings and desires that people can have. Some of it might be about what kind of people you fancy or who you fancy. It might be about the kind of relationships that you like to have. It can be about the kinds of sex you want to have or don't want to have. It can be about how you look and how you dress and what kind of music you listen to.

Often we get our ideas of who we are supposed to be and how we are supposed to feel and behave from places like tv, films, friends and family. However everyone is different from everyone else, only you know how you feel in relation to your sexual desires and feelings. The bottom line is that as long as you and your partner are both over 16 and have both agreed that what you do is what you both want, it is fine and it is normal!

However, some people have a hard time understanding and dealing with their own and other people's feelings. Don't worry, this is normal too! If you find you are having a hard time or feeling confused, we can offer a sympathetic listening ear for as long as you need to talk about it.

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