Excuse:
I don't like how they feel, it's like having sex with your wellies on

Answer:
Maybe we need to use lots of lube to make it feel better and anyway, I'd rather lose a little feeling than be a parent.

Excuse:
I'm on the pill we don't need to use one

Answer:
That's great, but using a condom means we're protected against sexually transmitted infections as well.

Excuse:
We've been going out for months now, we don't need them any more

Answer:
Well, I'm not ready to be a parent yet, and I don't want to risk sharing STI's either, no matter how long we've been together

Excuse:
I'm allergic to condoms

Answer:
That's ok, you can get allergy free ones at the Place

Excuse:
I really don't want to use them

Answer:
That's fine, we don't have to have penetrative sex then, there's lots of other stuff we can do

Excuse:
Oh, do you think I've been sleeping about then? Don't you trust me?

Answer:
It's nothing to do with that, It's just that there are some STI's that have no symptoms so you or I might have one and not even know, so I just want to protect you and me